I'm living in Beaverton, OR, after a three-month stay at a rehab facility, which in turn followed a two-month hospital stay after spinal surgery. I am still recuperating and will be starting outpatient therapy soon.
The following was inspired by something similar in mactavish's user info:
You can add me to your friends list if you like. You don't have to ask. If I add you to my friends list, but you don't want to add me to yours, I won't be offended. I'm not offended when people don't "friend" me or unfriend me for any reason. (If we're actually friends rather than just LJ acquaintances, and you "unfriend" me, I'd like to know why.)